Hi !everybody hope you read the previous post …I know it wasn’t that impressive but I am trying my level best . I shared about this with my peers they kinda love my idea about this blog.
Oh I just don’t wanna stay at home…..it’s like you are a prisoner in your own home ..but yes it’s not that bad even…everyday my dad asks me the same question “where do you see yourself ten years later”(though these are not the exact words but the meaning remains the same) he knows I want to be a fashion designer though the society in which we live or rather I live is full of stereotype norms.he sees me either in a white court carryING drugs and injection or a wrench …he imagins a suffix engineer before my name but it’s not what I wanna do.
Many friends of mine who are reading this blog are perhaps facing the same situation ..parents are forcing you to do MBA,CA,ENGINEER. ..etc but you want to be a wildlife photographer or a journalist or a dj and many more…
But if we see through their point of view I think or rather I know they are not wrong it’s just that they don’t want to take any chance with our future .
Today while I was having a very serious conversation with him I asked him”Papa is making money everything to you don’t you value the knowledge your daughter is gonna gain”he gave a slight smile to me and said”honey making money may not be anything to you but it is everything to this world in which we live..this world won’t ask you whether do you know how much is 2*2 but it would surely ask whether you have Mercedes or not. So to survive in this ruthless competitive world you need to change with it …”
He is correct though not completely….it’s not the norms.of the society that controls your life it’s your life that control the Norms of the society.the way society behaves is the way people constituting it behave and it’s we who constitute a society if we are rational enough to understand what should be valued over what and take our lives into our hand…we change it the way we want….OK now I have given quite a boring lecture it’s my request to every reader don’t let your dreams to be thrown in a garbage bin they are not trash.If people don’t believe in you let them not .Take this as a challenge and prove it…. to them the moment you think of giving up remember all those reasons that made you stick to it ..just don’t give up for anybody no matter who that person is but at the same time you shouldn’t forget your responsibilities ..you owe them and if it’s your turn to return don’t take a step back.
Try to figure out some thing that will not even hurt them and you also remain connected to your life so here is another poem of mine from my collection
I suddenly heard a sound from nowhere
I guess I knew it came from where
The place where I never visited
Because I know it felt cheated
That place is nowhere but my heart
Which has got a very special art
The art of recognising voice
The voice of no one else but my choice
Why is it we give more importance to others
Why is it that their comments make us bother
Who are they?
Who has given them the permission to say
To say anything about our lives
Who are they to get into our thrives?
Who are they to take the decision?
Why are we their main concern?
Do whatever you wish to do
Don’t worry it’s when,where and who
It’s their hobby to talk
But it’s you who has to walk
It’s only you who has the right
It’s only you who can decide
There are many who would come and say trash
But there’s no one to take the blame when the car of your life will crash
Get up be bold
It’s high time you get your life into your hold
Be determined to achieve what you dreamt
Because you only know how much it meant
Don’t be afraid ,be fearless
If it’s required be shameless
Shameless to say aloud
That you want to make a difference and not follow the crowd
Don’t just ignore that voice
It’s your life and it’s your choice
Hope you would like the post and please don’t forget to comment on it and yes if you have any suggestions and think we can discuss about it on my next post feel free to do so